Ambition in Your Business

Ambition: 1. An eager or strong desire to achieve something. 2. Desire for exertion or activity; energy, strong desire for success, achievement, or distinction. 3. Goal; aim, aspirations  dream, ambitiousness, drive, aspirations, power.

The Bible: Proverbs 3:6 - In all your ways acknowledge the Lord, and He will make your paths straight

Psalms 20:4 - May God grant your heart's desires and make all your planes succeed.

Philippians 2:13 -  It is God who works in you to will and to act according to His good purpose.

What are your ambitions? What do you desire to be in life? These are the questions a person should ask themselves on a daily basis. Everyone has a goal or dream they want to reach. Whether that dream is in their personal or professional life. What is your dream? Is it to move up in your current company or apply for another position in another? Is it to own a home or have children? Even get a new car? Whatever your dream, you have to have to be ambitious about it. Who says you cannot  have what you want in life? Setting goals and having the desire to go for it will get you what you want. As the Bible says in James 2 "Faith without works is dead." If you do not put that first foot forward, you cannot expect to get anywhere. You are not going to get anything done sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself. Even if you get rejected, keep going and keep moving. Never stop pursuing your dream. Even if someone tells you "No" or "I don't think that's a good idea," you should keep going.

My dreams? To be my own boss and make a beautiful life for my daughter. How am I going to accomplish that? By working hard and getting out there in any way possible. I own two WAH businesses. Soon I am going to start a course on wedding/event planning. This is something I am passionate about. This is something I have been thinking about for a very long time now. Not many people know that. I've had negativity bring me down in the past. I have learned that you cannot let what others say and think impact your life. If it does make an impact, make sure its a positive outcome. If someone says you can't, SHOW them that you can and will. You do not have to prove anything to anyone. God knows your heart and knows what He wants for your life. Pray and move toward your dream. However, you cannot expect God to do all of the work for you. You have to take that first step. You have to show God that you really want this and are willing to work for it and to keep it. He knows your heart, but you still have to show him how bad you want it. 

I do that by doing everything I can to get new customers. If I want to build my businesses and any future business, I have to get out there and promote myself. Not just online but in person also. I am kind of a shy person, but I have begun to learn to overcome that shyness. In my kind of business (or any business) you cannot be shy. You have to be willing to talk to people, even strangers. Customer interaction is key to your business. I am working on that. I see people all the time marketing their business and I am like, I need to do that. I wear my name tag every time I leave the house. One day it is Mary Kay and another it is Traci Lynn. People to look and they do ask questions. Right now I am limited since I do not have my own transportation. I do not let that stop me. When I do have a car I utilize that time in the best way possible. My first goal is to buy me a car at the beginning of the year. With that I do A LOT of internet marketing and making phone calls. You do what you have to do to make your money. Do not let anyone stop you. Keep having ambition and the strong desire to get what you want. 

God wants you to be successful. You have to put in some work also. He cannot help you unless you are willing to help yourself. Keep praying and keep pushing for your dream. You dream and goals will happen and come true when God knows you are ready for it. Even when it seems as if things are going in a bad direction, keep pushing and praying. Sometimes you have to go through the bad in order to get to the good things that are coming to your life. God is testing you and you have to pass those tests so He can give you your reward. Be Ambitious! Reach for your goals. Let go and let God lead you. He is your guide and will lead you on the correct path. Use the same energy you use in your relationships to build your business. If you want it, go get it! I am going for mine, I know you can do the same. What is your motivation? My daughter is mine. It can be the house you want, the car you want, your children or the need to stop working for someone else. God Bless You!

All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible. - Orison Sweet Marden -

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Happiness

Happiness is defined as: a state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. Cheerfulness, gladness. 

Psalm 16:11 - You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence, with eternal pleasures at Your right hand.

Psalm 144:15 - Happy are the people whose God is the Lord.

Proverbs 15:13 - A glad heart makes a happy face. 

What makes you happy? You kids, your home, your husband, money or your job? People should be happy for what they have instead of dwelling on what they don't have . To be honest it could be worse. There are people who are worse off than us and therefore we should be blessed with what we have. Life would be so much easier. I am happy I can be an inspiration to some people. I am happy I have my beautiful daughter in my life. I am happy because I am developing my own business and I am happy that I have someone special in my life who loves and supports me. I am happy I am rebuilding my relationship with God. He has blessed me in so many ways.

What does it take to be happy? In my opinion, not much. People think money is the root to happiness. That cannot be further from the truth. There are people who are poor and are happy because they wake up everyday. I guess it depends on the individual. Different things make different people happy. Happiness comes from within. You have to be happy with yourself. You have to be satisfied with who you are. This comes before you can be happy with someone else. Less stress and not depressed makes for a happy life. If you're religious, pray. If you're spiritual, meditate. Take some time for yourself to see what makes you truly happy. I always say, "If I'm happy, everyone else will be happy." Everyone should keep that in mind also. It's all about being positive. SMILE! You never know what a smile will do to someone's day! At work or just walking down the street, keep a smile on your face!

Happiness is like jam; you can't spread it without getting some on yourself. - Barbara Johnson

Friendship

Friendship is defined as the quality or condition of being friends. A friendly relationship, good will, companionship, fellowship, society and company. 

In Proverbs 18:24 it says that a real friend sticks closer than a brother. 

Romans 12:16 says Laugh with your happy friends when they're happy; share tears when they're down. Get along with each other. Make friends with nobodies; don't be the great somebody. 

Ecclesiastes 4:9 says two are better than on...if one falls down, his friend can help him up. 

Friendship is a wonderful thing. Having great friends can help a person get through anything. As the Bible says, a real friend sticks closer than a brother. In most cases that is true. I have friends with whom I've been friends with since middle school. They've been there through the good and bad times. We've had our problems with each other, but we got over them. A big question that arises is whether or not men and women can be JUST friends (even if the guy is not a homosexual). The answer to that is yes. I have a male friend with whom after we dated and broke up maintained a great friendship. And not the whole "friends with benefits" concept. Really true and great friends. We both went on with our lives (getting married, having children, etc.) but maintained a great friendship. I believe a friendship makes for a great relationship. As friends, you get to know a person's personality, habits, likes and dislikes. If something develops between you and that person, you can tell if it is something you can deal with. Most people jump into it. Not every friendship makes for a good relationship. You have to ask yourself, "Why do I want to be with this person?" My friend and I decided to pursue a relationship (again) because we realized a few things. We were very young when we met and began dating. We were on and off for years but knew that being so young we weren't ready for what we thought we were ready for. As adults, we realize the love we have for each other that never left (he was my first). We knew what we had been real and felt we were ready to do this. We were right. Right now we are happy as ever. I feel like a little girl when I'm with him. He makes me laugh and always keeps a smile on my face. He wants nothing more than to make me happy and I feel weightless when I'm with him. If I'm going through a tough time he's there to encourage me to keep going. He has my back and I love that about him. He's my rock. He is my best friend.

Some people never find that. They look in the wrong place and end up dating the wrong people without getting to know them first. Your mate should be your friend...your best friend. In my opinion, the friendship is the interview before the relationship and the relationship is the interview before the engagement and marriage. If we think of it in that way, we would make better decisions before marrying someone. It’s true, you never really know someone but you can get pretty damn close. Pray before entering into a marriage. Let God lead you to the one He has picked out for you. If you open your heart and listen to Him, you will know. Sometimes the person you least expect has been right in front of your face for a long time. There is no perfect mate, just the perfect one for you. One who accepts your flaws and loves you just for who you are. Listen and you will hear.

We do not think of business relationships as friendships, but depending on your line of business, we have to. As an Independent Consultant for Mary Kay and Traci Lynn Fashion Jewelry, I think of my customers as friends. In direct sales, you have to build a great repertoire with your customers so they will be repeat customers. You have a good time with your customers when you are telling them about new products. You do not want to just take their money and leave. You want to give them a good reason for coming back. Keep the friendship professional of course because you do not want to be taken advantage of. But do treat them with respect and a sense of friendship because not only do you want their repeat business, you want them to refer you also. 

Friendship is a word that should not be taken lightly, however, choose your friends wisely. It can be applied to every aspect of your life. I am fortunate enough to have wonderful friends. Friends that I've been friends with for nearly 20 years. I've met people over time who I thought I could call friends, but I recognize when I'm being used, unappreciated, and just not treated in the same manner I treat them. I am also fortunate enough to be in a relationship where are base is friendship. We have fun together and we love each other and that makes for a great relationship. It took us 16 years to come to that realization, but we grew and we both know what we want. We have goals that we plan to reach and most importantly, we support each other. I wish that everyone in the world can experience that level of friendship in their life, love, business and relationships.

  A faithful friend is an image of God - French Proverb

Welcome!

The purpose of this blog will be to uplift and inspire. I will also talk a little business and ideas and of course accept any. Advise? I will more likely voice my opinion because who am I to give advice. I will only advise on subjects in which I personally have knowledge. I am the 30 year single mother of a beautiful daughter. I hold an Associates degree in Elementary Education. However, as with most, I am thinking of a different career path. As an Independent Consultant for Mary Kay and Traci Lynn Fashion Jewelry, my mind has shifted. I am leaning more toward accessorizing and make-up artistry. Running my own business has given me the opportunity to spend more time with my daughter and be there when she gets home from school. I set my own hours and work on my own time. I love it! As a mother (a single mother at that) I work hard to give my daughter the life that she deserves. I struggled and still do sometimes but she will never know it. It is the job of mothers to protect their children from any and all harm. I work hard to be sure she has a wonderful life. She's happy and that is all that matters. My faith in God has given me the strength to continue on and be happy and when I'm happy everyone around me is happy. I stay positive by keeping a positive attitude about my life, love, my business and my relationships (personal and business). Stay positive and get rid of any and all negativity and live your life the way that you see fit.  Don't let anyone tell you how you should live and what you should do. If you live according to everyone else's will, it will make for an unpleasant and miserable life. Take charge of your life and do what you know is right for you. Until next time...

Signing off,

Toya